Apologies if this comes off as harsh, but if you aren't going to take the time to make yourself clear and concise, then why should we take the time to listen to you? You pride yourself on taking so much time to develop a map, and yet complain about taking the time to make sure people actually understand what you're saying, and if what you're saying is wanted. If you want to be taken seriously, then you better start acting seriously lest you be dismissed as someone who won't amount to much. I generally have a rule that I don't speak up unless I think the conversation would benefit from me doing so; if what you have to say has no meaning, then why say it at all? Also, general rule of forum etiquette, but double posting (that is, posting two posts in a row with no replies from other people in between) is generally frowned upon, as it adds unnecessary clutter.
Keep in mind that I am not attacking you, and I have no personal qualms against you; this is a community based around criticism and the betterment of ones self, and I am merely criticizing your actions, in particular failing to listen to others. I would not be surprised if some of this is new information for you, and I am not holding you responsible for not knowing, but it is better to learn what mistakes you're committing early on and take steps to correct them than to continue suffering from them later on down the line. It may hurt now, but it'll make the future much easier for you.
(Apologies to Star and Sandwhip for continuing to derail the thread; if this discussion continues, I'll make efforts to move it elsewhere)