Hey guys.

grazr

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I know this isn't something you usually throw about publicly on the internet and i can't imagine anyone being particularly bothered by my extended temporary absence. But i've just split out of a 7 year relationship and i don't think i can be around as much as i am..

I hope that next week i can get that TF2 article out i've been telling people about, that will hopefully help people and keep me occupied as well.

Life really throws you some surprises at times. I really don't know what to say. Ha ha.
 

GrimGriz

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Heh, I figure I'd be around more if I wasn't in a relationship ;)
 

drp

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tf2 > women

its been scientifically proven.
 

grazr

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Heh, I figure I'd be around more if I wasn't in a relationship ;)

You would have thought that, huh? I had atleast intended to take a break from hammer so that i could concentrate on the end of my university year, but still hang out in the forums some. Lending a hand to troubled souls.

The thing was i had planned to move out with her.. and well. Now i dunno where my life is going. It's pretty mad.. so i dunno what i'm gonna do now.

I'll be back soon, hopefully. Probably drop in every now and then because it's pretty hard to stay away from this wonderful community. I just need to sort things out. Then we'll see what happens.
 

DJive

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Grazr im really sorry to hear that bud.

you need to find on that shares your PC interests =)
 

drp

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evidence?
tf2 wont nag you after you're tired of it.
tf2 will not take your dog after you leave.
tf2 will not take half your assets after a messy divorce.
tf2 will not cheat on you (mine hasnt yet anyway :glare:)
tf2 will always be there when YOU want to
 
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you need to find on that shares your PC interests =)

No you don´t, i don´t want to turn this into a relationship-thread, but...
why do men always have to cut down on their interests and hobbies, while most women i know don´t have serious hobbies they put their heart in? (watching soaps,baking once a month or shopping isn´t what i call hobby)
You just have to make gf clear, that there is no way you will cut down on your hobbies because she can´t entertain herself, it´s not your fault, it´s hers :woot:
if she doesn´t get that, she´s an empty shell not worth the time

that´s at least how i manage my relationship :cool1:
 

drp

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get her to play test your beta releases :D
 

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You just have to make gf clear, that there is no way you will cut down on your hobbies because she can´t entertain herself, it´s not your fault, it´s hers :woot:
if she doesn´t get that, she´s an empty shell not worth the time

After you said that to your GF, which relationship did you have but dont have now?? :blink:
 
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i got a wise girlfriend, still the same one :) and she had to learn to accept that there is something beside her that is very important to me. the hobbies may differ, but there always something new to learn i dig deep into
a man is nothing without a hobby he is passionate about, yeah, even nerdy about, so i told her not to make me choose one or the other, she could not win
we got a great relationship, you just have to be honest and up front with the ones you love
 
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My sympathies friend, though I fully understand such things don't mean much right now. Take all the time you need, I'm pretty sure we'll still be here when you're feeling better ;) however long that may be. Cheers m8.
 

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I don't do realtionships, but if I would, I'd probably do it like eerieone ;-)
 

grazr

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Thanks for the sentiments guys.

And just for the record this wasn't anything about hobbies. To be fair i'm not sure i understand it myself. Apparently i didn't do anything wrong.

If i went any further into it i'd just end up ranting.. I'll see you guys all soon enough :)