I wish the cookie didn't crumble

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drp

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God this annoys me. Either you're a winningly persistant suitor, or a stalker, based entirely on how much they liked you already.
Well ill just say that the girl im talking to now would not be in my life if she hadn't been persistent with me. I'm practically socially retarded and kind of lose interest in people quickly and forget to keep in touch. I'm glad she stuck around :)
 

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Her... boyfriend committed suicide...

RED FLAG

I wouldn't touch that mess with a ten-foot pole. Can you imagine how fucked up you'd be if that happened to you? Just be thankful you're not with her and find someone who is whole already and doesn't need any fixing
what if you're a superhero?
 

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Well ill just say that the girl im talking to now would not be in my life if she hadn't been persistent with me. I'm practically socially retarded and kind of lose interest in people quickly and forget to keep in touch. I'm glad she stuck around :)

Yeah, but she's a girl. Most girls would need to actually live in your garden to be stalkers, whereas men can manage it by talking to women once more than expected.
 

grazr

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I tend to find if a girl isn't damaged goods and thus completely psycotic, then they're waiting for a guy who's totally out of their league and too snobby to even worth being friends with, let alone persuing.

I meet very few ladies who are "normal", level headed individuals and those who are are usually already either in a long term relationship or working towards a career.

...and the older they get then the higher the chance the girl has a story or 2 that result in their likely current imbalanced personality.

I'm not trying to be sexist i'm just iterating my observations that women are pretty fragile in the head. I've been in a number of relationships and witnessed even more unfold between friends and the majority of women i see have been tipped over the edge as a teenager or by consistantly bad boyfriends; and make every following relationship that much more of a challenge. Especially those who've been on the recieving end of domestic abuse, i've been with 2 girls like that, one from her dad and the other a previous partner. Real fickle.

So yea, what Mangy said. If you do get into a relationship with a girl like that, just tread cautiously. I thought i could handle relationships like that and for a while i could simply be understanding, several fucked up relationships later i've been single for a couple years because i don't have the patience to deal with the head games women like that come with. I'm happier single than with a psyco, plus it's financially better :p
 
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What Is Schwa

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I tend to find if a girl isn't damaged goods and thus completely psycotic, then they're waiting for a guy who's totally out of their league and too snobby to even worth being friends with, let alone persuing
You don't respect bitches, huh?
 

Kiddnils

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I don't know why, but I am not surprised of how much you guys know about girls. :D

Besides you should really wait and look how the things develop. Then you could try your Music idea or wrote her again like: Do you remember, when I asked you about girls? The Problem is I meant you.
 
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Kiddnils

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We need a new subforum! I think quite a few gamers have problems with girls and it seems like we've got many experts.
 

Terwonick

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I think she might be avoiding me, cause she doesn't answer my texts or facebook messages (although it's to early to jump to conclusions)

I would understand... I think I made her cry

EDIT: how do I get a change to my "L3: Junior Member" thing... I want to change it to L3: Love Warrior

EDIT2: she isn't avoiding me and I didn't make her cry, my day just got a lot better.
 
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Terwonick

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dang... I don't have a credit card, and nobody would donate for me, I'm unable to enter any contest right now cause my comp is off limits right now (i'm on a family comp).
 

Penguin

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I could never love someone who uses "ur" in conversation.
 

sniprpenguin

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Two pieces of advice from a veteran of the Lonely Hearts Club:

1. Learn to move on, man. Your latest map doesn't pan out? Move on. A girl rejects you? Move on.

2. Everyone wants their space. Even people in super-sappy love don't want to be with their partners everyday to some extent. You know the phrase, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? It's true. Learn it, love it, and embrace that thought next time.

Right now, you've been rejected, and you're still pestering this poor girl. If you want to try and still be friends with her, try not talking to her at all for a week unless it's an absolute necessity, like a fire. Starting right now. You made her cry, and she's probably pissed at you. You are most likely the last person she wants to talk to. You're probably thinking that you could apologize or comfort her, but she's not going to take it. In that week, you'll probably move on without realizing it.

Also, if you want to go out with her sister, go ahead with it, but maybe after a week or two. Don't be creepy by asking the first one if it's alright. There will be a big difference in response if you are already making her sister happy when you ask. And this goes into another general piece of advice: Don't fucking announce to the world/internet you have a girlfriend before you two are serious or are going after a potential girlfriend. That's a mindset no one likes in someone else. Change that right now.

And also, this is kinda more of a general point made towards the discussion in general, but I find being friends with a woman isn't bad, like Schwa stated. It's just being a decent human being. What is the worse thing is being friends with a woman that you haven't moved on over, aka "friendzoned". But you have to come up with your answer to those situations.



Also, funny story about women trying to not hurt us with rejection: One time, asked an old friend out via Facebook. Her idea of not hurting me? Don't respond at all. I knew she'd probably say no and it was pretty much a shot in the dark, but not responding made me feel like she didn't even respect me as a person at all. The friendship ended right there and then. (And yes, I did verify this with her.)
 

LeSwordfish

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I could never love someone who uses "ur" in conversation.

"So this girl's pretty smokin'. I should chat to her."

ME: Hey Grace

HER: HEYYYYY wuu2?

"Never mind, find someone else."

My personal tale of woe: the girl i had my eye on is now going out with my best friend. This is the second time this has happened. I'm okay though, i have a fallback. I got asked out by a crazy french girl last year, and basically agreed to a date the next time she was in the ountry, expected at june. so hey, i'm practically in there.

She was sweet though. Shy, which is fantastically humanising.
 
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Terwonick

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I'll try staying away, but she's pretty much kept me sane for the past few days... I was in church on sunday and I started to freak out about her not texting me back (you can't text somebody if your dead)... i was thinking about those red flags. I need to get help. It happened during school today also.

I know I'm taking this way too far.

EDIT: just to let you know, I'm not that paranoid normally.
 
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